Turn Ons

[Deleted User 5375]

A few people have expressed that they can't get aroused without their favourite rainwear. I suppose if you are with someone exactly the same, then that is OK, but I doubt that there are many people in such a symmetric relationship. That means that either sex is a solo activity, or one person has to endure sex in rainwear every time. This is not fair. It is important to understand that as much as we like rainwear others like other things, and we need to accept and indulge those things, without imposing a MAC on every occasion. As much as we have been programmed to like rubber, pvc, nylon or whatever, by some event in our past, we can train ourselves to be truly turned on by things other than rainwear. I found myself slipping in to the belief that I could only be hard when wearing, or seeing a woman wearing, plastic. I managed to stop this, and decided to get turned on by my wife being naked, despite both of us being advanced in years. When getting ready for bed i would purposefully watch if she bent over in her nightie, a flash of her naked bum really does it for me, but it took a while of holding my manhood under the covers to get to this stage, and she didn't know I was basically getting of as she got ready for bed. This is just me, now a flash of my wife's pussy gets me started, despite seeing it for the last 30 years!

What do people,think about this? Does anyone else abstain from rainwear deliberately now and again just to prove they can?

[Rainworshipper]

I never felt that women had to be wearing rainwear for me to find them sexy, I just found it an even greater turn on if they were wearing shiny rainwear. I never expected women to look like page 3 girls, I can't say that a woman has to look a certain way to have sex appeal.Sad to say that now I find less and less women are sexy, this is partly me growing older, but is also down to bloated figures,tattoos and short cropped hair! Having said this I think your attitude is good, JellyMan.

[MissRachel]

I never felt that women had to be wearing rainwear for me to find them sexy, I just found it an even greater turn on if they were wearing shiny rainwear. I never expected women to look like page 3 girls, I can't say that a woman has to look a certain way to have sex appeal.Sad to say that now I find less and less women are sexy, this is partly me growing older, but is also down to bloated figures,tattoos and short cropped hair! Having said this I think your attitude is good, JellyMan.

I am not sure what to say. I think the OP is confusing love and likes??? Women just plain do not look good anymore.

[rainwear-experience]

A few people have expressed that they can't get aroused without their favourite rainwear. I suppose if you are with someone exactly the same, then that is OK, but I doubt that there are many people in such a symmetric relationship. That means that either sex is a solo activity, or one person has to endure sex in rainwear every time. This is not fair. It is important to understand that as much as we like rainwear others like other things, and we need to accept and indulge those things, without imposing a MAC on every occasion. As much as we have been programmed to like rubber, pvc, nylon or whatever, by some event in our past, we can train ourselves to be truly turned on by things other than rainwear. I found myself slipping in to the belief that I could only be hard when wearing, or seeing a woman wearing, plastic. I managed to stop this, and decided to get turned on by my wife being naked, despite both of us being advanced in years. When getting ready for bed i would purposefully watch if she bent over in her nightie, a flash of her naked bum really does it for me, but it took a while of holding my manhood under the covers to get to this stage, and she didn't know I was basically getting of as she got ready for bed. This is just me, now a flash of my wife's pussy gets me started, despite seeing it for the last 30 years!

What do people,think about this? Does anyone else abstain from rainwear deliberately now and again just to prove they can?

"sex is a solo activity" It probably wont surprise many of you that I've often been told to "go **** yourself" I have tried but find it difficult to achieve has anyone got any advice

(this site seems to be getting stranger by the day, thought I'd join the madness)

[rainwear-experience]

I never felt that women had to be wearing rainwear for me to find them sexy, I just found it an even greater turn on if they were wearing shiny rainwear. I never expected women to look like page 3 girls, I can't say that a woman has to look a certain way to have sex appeal.Sad to say that now I find less and less women are sexy, this is partly me growing older, but is also down to bloated figures,tattoos and short cropped hair! Having said this I think your attitude is good, JellyMan.

I am not sure what to say. I think the OP is confusing love and likes??? Women just plain do not look good anymore.

Quite a statement to be making telling more than half the population of the world they dont look good

[Deleted User 5375]

I think it is important to see the best in people and not judge on their choices, or just the way they look, because they don't match our views of what we like. As I get older I find myself more forgiving of how people look, probably because I am a grey old bloke with saggy bits and a dick that fails to function as it once did, and hope that others might look past those things and like me for who I am. When I was in early twenties I met a girl who owned a plastic mac. Back then I thought she was no looker, positively turned me off and I remember thinking that I wished she looked prettier so that I could ask her out. My mature self would slap the younger me for even thinking this now, and not because when owned a Mac. I know now that she was incredibly beautiful because she was funny and fun to be with and I loved her as a friend. I hope she found someone who loved her truly and not a shallow git like me back then.

[rainwear-experience]

Sorry to hear about Dick hope he gets better soon

INot sure about turn ons but I once had a pair of jeans with turn-ups

[MissRachel]

A few people have expressed that they can't get aroused without their favourite rainwear. I suppose if you are with someone exactly the same, then that is OK, but I doubt that there are many people in such a symmetric relationship. That means that either sex is a solo activity, or one person has to endure sex in rainwear every time. This is not fair. It is important to understand that as much as we like rainwear others like other things, and we need to accept and indulge those things, without imposing a MAC on every occasion. As much as we have been programmed to like rubber, pvc, nylon or whatever, by some event in our past, we can train ourselves to be truly turned on by things other than rainwear. I found myself slipping in to the belief that I could only be hard when wearing, or seeing a woman wearing, plastic. I managed to stop this, and decided to get turned on by my wife being naked, despite both of us being advanced in years. When getting ready for bed i would purposefully watch if she bent over in her nightie, a flash of her naked bum really does it for me, but it took a while of holding my manhood under the covers to get to this stage, and she didn't know I was basically getting of as she got ready for bed. This is just me, now a flash of my wife's pussy gets me started, despite seeing it for the last 30 years!

What do people,think about this? Does anyone else abstain from rainwear deliberately now and again just to prove they can?

"sex is a solo activity" It probably wont surprise many of you that I've often been told to "go **** yourself" I have tried but find it difficult to achieve has anyone got any advice

(this site seems to be getting stranger by the day, thought I'd join the madness)

I read a article on what people like and dislike about having sex. The to things that I found interesting was that the poll found out that many women do not like the "mess" and clean up after-words. Something else that the poll stated was some people often picture in their minds how their "mate" once looked years ago. The last thing that I remember was that mush time was wasted in "preparing" for sex and that the actual sex only lasted a few minutes. This all said you are now making me feel like it is a sin to even wear a pair of boots and a raincoat to go shopping in.

[MissRachel]

I never felt that women had to be wearing rainwear for me to find them sexy, I just found it an even greater turn on if they were wearing shiny rainwear. I never expected women to look like page 3 girls, I can't say that a woman has to look a certain way to have sex appeal.Sad to say that now I find less and less women are sexy, this is partly me growing older, but is also down to bloated figures,tattoos and short cropped hair! Having said this I think your attitude is good, JellyMan.

I am not sure what to say. I think the OP is confusing love and likes??? Women just plain do not look good anymore.

Quite a statement to be making telling more than half the population of the world they dont look good

When I take the subway to work I see all the women with bloated figures, tattoos and short cropped hair! None of the women looked cultured or even lady like. Ok, I guess I should not be looking at other women but they look like monsters. I admit it; I am stuck in 1955. Women looked like women back then and if rained they wore a long mackintosh. They wore white gloves to go out to diner and carried paten leather purses.

Sigh, back to the subway.

[rainwear-experience]

A few people have expressed that they can't get aroused without their favourite rainwear. I suppose if you are with someone exactly the same, then that is OK, but I doubt that there are many people in such a symmetric relationship. That means that either sex is a solo activity, or one person has to endure sex in rainwear every time. This is not fair. It is important to understand that as much as we like rainwear others like other things, and we need to accept and indulge those things, without imposing a MAC on every occasion. As much as we have been programmed to like rubber, pvc, nylon or whatever, by some event in our past, we can train ourselves to be truly turned on by things other than rainwear. I found myself slipping in to the belief that I could only be hard when wearing, or seeing a woman wearing, plastic. I managed to stop this, and decided to get turned on by my wife being naked, despite both of us being advanced in years. When getting ready for bed i would purposefully watch if she bent over in her nightie, a flash of her naked bum really does it for me, but it took a while of holding my manhood under the covers to get to this stage, and she didn't know I was basically getting of as she got ready for bed. This is just me, now a flash of my wife's pussy gets me started, despite seeing it for the last 30 years!

What do people,think about this? Does anyone else abstain from rainwear deliberately now and again just to prove they can?

"sex is a solo activity" It probably wont surprise many of you that I've often been told to "go **** yourself" I have tried but find it difficult to achieve has anyone got any advice

(this site seems to be getting stranger by the day, thought I'd join the madness)

I read a article on what people like and dislike about having sex. The to things that I found interesting was that the poll found out that many women do not like the "mess" and clean up after-words. Something else that the poll stated was some people often picture in their minds how their "mate" once looked years ago. The last thing that I remember was that mush time was wasted in "preparing" for sex and that the actual sex only lasted a few minutes. This all said you are now making me feel like it is a sin to even wear a pair of boots and a raincoat to go shopping in.

Really? Well, I apologise if that's how I make you feel but maybe reading less and thinking more for yourself could improve your plight