Why are people shy

[Nylon macs]

Why are people shy when you start talking to theme on here.
But they ask you first what you like ect .
I answer theme and thay go quite lol .

[mackintoshed]

We share the same interest 'Nylon Macs', but I've been hard pushed to get a conversation out of you.

[Nylon macs]

We share the same interest 'Nylon Macs', but I've been hard pushed to get a conversation out of you.

Your just a bit to full on

[Rainworshipper]

I think that a lot of us on here have been reluctant to talk about something that is very intimate and personal and we have developed a habit of keeping our thoughts to ourselves(this was the case with me although I have become less shy in recent years). For my own part I don't want to bother members with too many p.m.'s, but I have been in contact with several members in the past couple of years.

[mason]

Regarding talking with other guys about rainwear, I am ALWAYS up for a chat as long as you keep it mostly non-sexual.

Any talk about wanking etc, and I'm out. Too much info just creeps me out.

I met one Melbourne guy who wanted me to tie him up in his rainwear. Sorry, but that's a hard 'no'.

I also remember meeting one creep via a Yahoo rainwear forum (he messaged me first) and the first thing he did after accepting it, was send me a dick shot. Sorry, but I don't bat that way. The only thing he got was a block and a report to Yahoo. Since then, I've been a lot more careful.

[annabell-cagoule]

Had the same mason, happy to chat to folks but not receive dick picks and wanking videos!

[Pvcjayne]

As possibly your only female member I'm not shy and within reason happy to chat about most things, I'm too old and have been around too long to take offence although I will always say if I'm not interested. But if anyone does message me please make a bit of an effort and don't just say hi. Also please don't start a conversation by asking for pictures of me, they are for my husband. Also I work full-time and have a life away from fetish so although I will always reply to all messages it can sometimes take a while so I don't appreciate being hassled for not answering instantly. Having said all that please feel free to message me if you fancy chatting.

[Rives]

The masturbation references are off-putting, agreed. As are the pressure to meet up. Some of us have no desire to do anything beyond corresponding in writing here or on PM

[rubmac1986]

I like to think I’m broad minded enough to have an adult conversation about most subjects.
To me, wearing rainwear and other fetish clothing is an adult subject and masturbation is connected to the pleasure I and probably the vast majority on here, certainly get from wearing it. We all have our differences in what we like and dislike and this no doubt holds true in our fetishes and how we like to converse about them with others. What might be acceptable talk to some, might be anathema to others.
To hear that certain people have gone so far as to report others for overstepping things when surely a rebuff and stern admonishment should suffice, does irk me somewhat. I don’t condone sending cock pics out of the blue or even talking sexually if that is not what is wanted by the recipient, but you really have to be careful who you get into a conversation with sometimes it seems.