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Introducing a fetish to someone
Posted: August 2nd, 2016, 1:45 am
by Rain89
How did/would you introduce your kink to someone who you know can keep it between the two of you. Six of my girl friends know of my raincoat fetish after I carefully and slowly brought up the weather in a random conversation, for some, I went straight to the point (ex. "Do you mind trying this on for me?") without being too obvious.
On another note; How would you feel if you wanted someone to fulfill your fantasy, they object and you later hear about them fulfilling your fantasy for someone else?
Re: Introducing a fetish to someone
Posted: August 2nd, 2016, 12:00 pm
by sissy_sofi
I am a regular within my local kink/ fetish community therefore my closest friends are aware of my raincoat fetish, boot fetish or pvc fetish, being a sissy etc. As for partners that I am intimate with or dating, I don't date vanilla. So, usually the kink short list comes up and raincoats are near the top. So next response is "Raincoats?"
"yes, latex or vinyl raincoats, I like the look, touch, and smell of them.They turn me on, increase arousal and I enjoy incorporating power exchange."
An ex of mine and I explored this often and it was a lot of fun.
As for the second question, it probably would bother me at first but it would be about the nature of the relationship between the both of us. Maybe that person did not want things to get "weird" between us. They know how "drawn" or "obsessed" we are with the raincoat. They aren't into you or attracted to you. They don't feel that you have "earned it."
The person has their reasons for not fulfill your fantasy.